Life is so unexpected 2

Mom's old friend was coming over few days ago. Mom hasn't seen her for ages. The friend which I were asked to call 'Mama', came for holiday with her daughter, SIL and grandchild. She stayed at home a night. So Mom had this old-friend-get-together moment. Turn out the daughter is my age and she's married with a 2 yrs old kid. SHould understand how Mom feels.

Heck, that Mama only stayed for a night at home but it seems like forever. I hv to listen to all kind of advice on how to choose husband, on how good her daughter is, on how great the SIL is, on how good she's brought up the kids n yada yada yada..

Gosh.. its killing me. I barely catch my breath. That Mama is such a good lady. No offense yet she talk so highly of the daughter n caused me to hv such a high expectation. I didn't manage to meet her daughter. But I bet she's good, really good. Then come the phrase ' Good guy is meant for a good lady'..
Guess, I should stop looking for a good guy then huh?? I know where I stand!.

Family gath (or Parents gath) every 1st saturday in a month. So Mom n Dad was attending the gath. We learn that my coz is cancelling the engagement, which mean no wedding this coming february. Reason: She found out that the fiancée is having affair. I just don't know what to say. Somehow, most of family members will come over from Indonesia to attend the wedding. Well, they bought the tix already. The wedding is just around the corner. So Mom asked me to call her n console. Perhaps she needs some1 to talk to.. I mean some1 who experience such thing (hohoho like I'm the right person la kan??) But I didn't. I hv no courage to call her and say things will be ok and stuffs. Coz I know, it won't be that easy.

So I decided to go to her house on Sunday and sending Mom's old friend to see another old friend (my aunty). When I was about to park my car, I saw my coz. OMG!! She's so skinny. I almost cannot recognize her. I can see the cheekbone appears proudly. Mom as usual get her sentimental time n cried. While I was parking my car, Mom went to see her and hug her. She keep saying, 'I'm Ok mama.. da ok da.. mama don't worry.'

Oh Mom start her own drama at parking lot plak.. ceh.. I got out of the car, hug her n rub her back as a sister would do. She said, 'I'm ok but its hurt!'. Well, I know.. I know.. Been there, done that..I said, ' U look like hell, apsal kurus sangat ni?'. She smile and tell me, 'takdala, biasa je'
Yea right. She was about to go out for a friend wedding, so we didn't catch up much on her matters. We went upstairs to meet my aunt. Well, 3 Mom meeting is such a headache since I was alone n yet they talk about marriage n stuffs. Hallo.. baru je jd camni da bising2 lg.. adoiyaii

Well, this not exactly the real reason I oppose marriage at this very moment. Oppose?? Opss. NO NO.. I'm not opposing marriage, just that my time hasn't come yet. Oh la la.. ahakss.. Bet, when my time comes I'm go with the flow heartedly. :p

My aunty ckp, the guy (the x-fiancee) ask for the wedding to be postponed, not to be cancelled. But my coz, made her final decision. In fact, both family come to the understanding that they should postponed the wedding. What do they know? The feeling of being betrayed when you've spent the money, time, energy preparing for the wedding and suddenly there is a gurl give some shit. Perhaps, one day my coz is strong enoff to accept him back then we'll see how things.. At the moment, the wedding is canceled.

I was almost losing my sane mind when break up 5 years ago (damn!! its been 5 whole year..hohoho), I couldn't imagine how she pull herself together to face this. Be strong my Coz, afterall we are all support whatever decision u made.

Futnot: Malas nk tulis lagi.. mlm sket sambung part baru..