Love addiction...

There's a lot of things to share but I've been very busy lately. I've so many things to do and I barely have time for myself. At work, I make used all times that I've to finish up the unfinished tasks my cozin allocating specifically for me. So, once I get home (after facing heavy traffic jammed of course), I got my whole body so exhausted. At work, I got my brain exhausted, then my body and I ended up sleep after maghrib prayer. I didn't go for Terawih for quite sometimes already. I even bring some work back home but rarely do it at home as my mind n body no longer co-operated with heavy workload. So I guess, I will only update my blog when I'm feeling high or I'm really free like weekend. Hehee

Well, this topic was came up on my mind after I had break fast with Dayang few days ago. About love addiction. Well, the fact was I'm easily forgive ppl and I almost forgot what they did for me. That make me fall into a serious problem which ppl will always take advantage over me. Hohohoo

Let's understand what Love Addiction is all about..

" Love Addiction is just like any other compulsion except that it has to do with relationships. Because of the ‘love’ part of the addiction, people often don’t understand the dangerous gravity of the situation.

A person who is excessively attached to another person most likely carried those habits over from past relationships. The conditions in such past relationships left the person feeling inadequate or mentally and/or physically abused. Romantic relationships are not the only type that cause such habits to develop; they can also stem from any of the following conditions: lack of nurturing or attention during childhood, isolation or detachment from family, hidden pain, early abandonment, unrecognized early needs, fears of rejection, pain, and lack of love or hope.

A love addict has a fear of change. They will attach themselves to another person as to obtain that person’s identity for themselves. Having a very low self-esteem and lacking self-identity, the person chooses a mate or friend they would like to become. Crimes of passion, murder, suicides, and stalking, bloom out of these relationships. Homosexuality is another byproduct of this problem, as it’s easier to take on the identity of someone of the same sex. A love addict also has the need to control the relationship. They will use sex to get their own way or in exchange for love. He or she confuses sex for love.

When a person tries to break up with a love addict, the situation becomes very intense and could result in stalking. The break-up adds to the addicts already overloaded emotional system. The love addict is not afraid to be as outlandish in actions as possible."

I was wondering why I always stucks in love with love addiction. I mean, those ppl who actually cannot stand one women in their life at one time, or perhaps they can't stand a women more than a month an they need to find the replacement asap. So turn out, this type of guys gonna have like millions kind of gf when he grew older. Starting from Syasya to App, I guess I get enough of it. At times, they are just perfect.. they are nice, they are charming but at the same time they just cannot bear the feeling to know other girls. Owh whatever, as long as they got nothing to do with me anymore.

Nway, I've been trying to be a good frens with them, which turn out some of them can b ur fren and some just can't. It's either they are trying to manipulate you or trying to make use of you. So better run for my own good. I'll treat them fairly. I get to know about all this when I started to know different types of person. So many things I've learn along the way. Ppl like syaril and nuar is type of person you find difficult to deal with coz they may take advantage over you. So need to be extra careful. On the other hand, App is like do not bring too much harm, it just that u need to always be aware of. So, it's easy not to be in contact at all. If they need u, they'll find u. Don't hv to pretend good and trying to say hello or whatsoever.. That's bullshit. Somehow, if they really take u as a fren, they won't bother to get u something when he went somewhere. What a thought.

So the conclusion, I just wanna say Syasya n Nuar is like love addict level expert coz they won't stop looking for a girls.. hahaa.. Thats all for now.. hehehee..

*Out of topic jap, I was about to sms app asking him to get me Kek lapis S'wak for hari raya. But then, I just dun wanna sms him n suddenly asking him that. Its kinda me trying to get into fren-to-fren relationship. So I just hold the sms and tell mama that I'm gonna make brownies for raya (well, kira lain dari yg lain gak kan??hehe). Guess what! Yesterday, app sms me asking me to meet him up coz he got cake me from S'wak. (Nya ingat tok faveret mek..hahaa) Yea, his flight was yesterday afternoon. But I dun hv time to see him.. maybe later coz he mite b busy with the interview and all. Perhaps I don't have to go to DJC as I would avoid going there..